The boley incident has me thinking about arguments, so explain your most memorable arguments.

My most starts with me and my ex-wife. I started it by fussing about not having any clean clothes. I said something along the lines of " I work all day, the least you could do is wash my clothes. She was pregnant, and being what I considered lazy at the time. We argued some, she threw some pots and pans and almost everything she could find in the cabinets ( which wasn't much since she didn't wash the dishes ) I grabbed her and wrestled her to the floor and asked her what's the funkin problem, she said " you could appreciate me more" then I punched the door which was solid oak, and a couple of broke knuckles later. I found that I was in the wrong iy88767

I know arguement.

I think I just posted mine in the Boley thread. I'm working on my hijacking skills. Flight says I'm not doing it right, so I'm practicing. :mellow:

Ok, here it is from the Boley thread:

My ex-wife called the law on me once before we got divorced. We were arguing, and I didn't hit her, but she started poking me in the chest (I hate that ish) so I started yelling back at her & getting in her face. She took a couple of steps backward and fell her ass over the arm on the couch. Fight coulda been over right there, cause I started laughing, but that just pissed her off even more, so she called the sheriff and said I pushed her. So they come out, and no marks on either of us, and all they said was we needed some cool down time. Funny thing is... they ended up taking her outside & talking to her some more, but I was listening at the door, and they pretty much said she didn't have any means to press charges. But she was still so mad, they suggested SHE leave & stay somewhere else for the night.

Good times. Man, I love my new wife. :)

PS - Ty, always check to make sure it's a hollow core door. Always.

Pushing match about 10 years ago, but have avoided that since. Dont like jail much. Had a few FUs and why the hell did we get married. But I just chose the couch and waited.

Solution. ^&%1'

actually a couple days ago me and my g/f got into it pretty bad. My g/f about 2 months ago to stop smoking pot cause she says i'm not myself when i do, which i disagree w/ cause then i'll agree w/ anything she says when i'm high, so bad idea on her part.But i havn't smoked since, but she doesn't smoke pot at all, so i thought. I live in an appt w/ my cousin and were very good friends w/ our neighbors, even my girl, and we were haveing a party betweeen both appt's and i looked through the window into my neighbors appt and saw my girl smokin pot. I didn't point it out at the time. So i waited till she got back and i was in the process of rolling a joint w/ pot that is 3 months old, and she comes up to me and says "what the fuck are you doing, arn't yuo gonna keep your promise?" I just replied, "well, if you can do it, then why can't I?" Ummmm yea, she denied that she smoked pot and walked out and slammed the door. So, i didn't smoke the joint cause now she is creating drama. Mind you, she is PMS'n. So i get a text from her an hour later saying "I'm at the bar, so if you need to get ahold of me you can call my ex bf." wow, was i steaming. What she doesn't know is that me and her ex have become pretty good friends and i am 7 inches taller and 75 lbs heavier and i'm only 205 lbs, so if he really wanted to do something, :bsc: . Long story short all i texted the ex was "make sure she gets back here safely." Well, an hour later he dropped her off at my appt and me and him smoked the joint still sitting on the table while she was in bed....


haha, you can't beat me bitch.

and salvador is right either ^&%1' or by8v68787 will always calm ya down.

When I was in college, I had a job as an assistant manager for a local movie theater. I was working 50 hours a week, overloading my course work at school to graduate early, and engaged. She and I rarely fought, but she had mentioned that she felt unappreciated because I was either at school or at work so much, and not spending as much time as she wanted with her. We were living together, and I tried to reserve 1 day a week to be with just her...but for Valentine's day this particular year, I decided to do something extra romantic. I reserved a room at the Hyatt Regency on Riverstreet in Savannah, and had this really cool weekend planned. I came home early from work to surprise her, and lo and behold, I found her in bed with the very employee that introduced us. Not sure if what followed constitutes as an argument or not, but I grabbed my home anti-theft device (Louisville Slugger), and started towards him...he quickly ran to the sliding glass door, and basically jumped...it wasn't a full story off the ground, but it was close...then she and I promptly began yelling and arguing. I started throwing everything she owned out the same sliding glass door, and basically made sure she left butt ass naked. Told her if she wanted to act like a whore, she should dress the part so nobody else got confused.

The cops didn't show, and I didn't lay a hand on her or on him (I did eventually have a series of altercations with him, but that's a different story)..I went to work the next day, fired him, then came home. I spent the next week drunk...my 2 best friends eventually got me back on my feet again, but it was YEARS later before I finally fully recovered. Before I met my wife, Valentine's day was a holiday I spent with either Jose or the Kickin' Chicken. However, for the last 11 years, life's been a lot better...

My wife and I haven't had a major argument that I can recall...friends say we don't fuss and fight, but rather fit...we poke and play. Every once in awhile, we have a minor fracas, but rarely does it even rise to the level of raised voices... 8DRTV75

Once my wife said, "You did that."
"No, I didn't."
"Yes, you did."
It was horrible.

No she didnt.

I had some hum dingers in my life. Going into my marriage I knew the golden rule, NEVER PUT YOUR HAND ON HER. I have this recurring dream of Douglas county sheriff coming to the house and carrying my big ass to jail. Not one but the whole damn evening watch. My wife is 5'2/5 and I am 6 feet. You do the math, I tell her when we argue that I am not going to jail for her ass so she can forget it. Defending her honor is another thing. I just learn to shut my mouth and cool my ass down. I got work to do and I can't do it in jail.

wow man, that is not cool at all. Thats like what you see in movies and shit about walkin in on your girl w/ another man, only in the movies the guy usually gets shot and the woman keeps yelling out, STOP STOP! haha. but thats bogus, glad your happy w/ the wifey.

Shit, Ton!

Guns don`t kill people... <_<
Husbands that come home early kill people. ;)

Thanks for the reply guys, These were some good stories and many I can relate all too well.
Not to overshadow any story here, Ton I never walked in on my ex but I did pass by her on her way in while I was on my way out fishing at 5:00 in the morning.

Yeah, err uhh ''Night Fishing'' is what I used to call it. :blink:

haha, yea this actually was a pretty good topic, good time to vent too if ya know what i mean.

I didn't get the thrill that she did. That's why the bitch pays me child support now :bsc:

Hell, I was not even going to go into all the scrapes I have had.
My ex was a former officer in Army 101st Airborne and was a ruthless mean bitch that sported a 155 IQ and could fuck you up in many ways, the least of which included kicking you`r ass.
I seen her rip a 6`2, 240 lb. guys face open because he was in the process of caller her a bitch but the word never fully left his mouth before he was eating chicklets. :o
All because, he knew the guy that cased a fight that had resulted in a spilled a drink on her dress!

My current wife, she is a trained in MMA and a former Lady Kick boxer, (she was a teen beauty cover girl too) that`s 19 years younger than me.
Does she possess a temper?
You bet!
I once seen her break a mans jaw because he said some disrespectful drunk shit to her mama!
Her left jab is wicked with a 'lights out'' right cross to follow it up.

Lets just say, years of study in Tek Kwon Doo, Bushido Karate and Wing Chu Kung Fu has served me well in excaping injury or causing any injury to others. 8DRTV75

yea right, the reason why you two got divorced is because she was tired of being the man of the relationship bhjk,tt

but i have banged a marine before, the sex was great, but she was more of a man than i was at the time. Well, she was 27 and i was 19, so, she really was haha.

She is/was my age, she holds 3 degrees and she was on the Auburn Cheer-leading squad back when Bo Jackson played there.
Pure hell fire she was, a great ally but and awful adversary.

lol, thats cool bout her chearleading w/ auburn. When i lived in the suburbs of chicago and worked at the marriott in burr ridge. My supervisors dad was really good friends w/ bo jackson and i was able to golf w/ him and after we went golfing he invited all of us back for dinner at his house, fuckin georgious it is. He is a really good man.

Eh, my ex flipped out because I'd put in 14 hours that day and was too tired to take her and the kid to a double feature at the drive in and I had to be up at work again in 7 hours.. When I suggested we wait until the next night when I did not have to work the next day after she threw a stockpot of boiling water in me and started in on me with a knife till I locked myself in the bathroom. I was NOT going to hit her.

Nope, lived with her 2 more years, finished putting her thru nursing school and during/after my first heart attack she told me about her sleeping with 3 guys at work at the hospital and packed up my son and left me.

That sucked real bad Iowa.
Crap like that will surely leave you hardened and it takes time to recover.

is that the same girl that took your new car after you got rid of your hatchback?

Yup.

You think? And after what the last GF did, after that, I could care less if I ever ever ever date a gain. I spent 5 years learning to love and trust again, we NEVER had one fight, ever, helped raise her four daughters, so when I took her out to a weekend of restaurants , casinos, hotels, SHE tells me she's sleeping with her boss, and takes my dog to boot. After I had paid for it all of course.

I hate women, don't trust 'em, don't want no more of 'em.

I like my dog, my beer, and my Falcons. I'll never let a woman come between me and them again.

me and you are in the same boat man, only i'll add my video games in there.

well fella's i'm off work, so i'll see ya'll on friday.

I just knew I was not going to strike back. Because if I did, I'm not the type that holds back. I'd be in prison. There's just no sense in that. I will say that I hollered thru the bathroom door tho, that my next stop was the gun cabinet. She split. Wise Idea. Tho I said it mainly to get her the hell out of the house so I could go get patched up, stitched and my hide debrided. I've not hit a woman yet in my life and don't intend to. It takes even worse than that to get me to hurt a woman. Not that I ain't WANTED to kick the shitninnies out of a few,..but nope.

That is the way I was raised (not hitting girls) by my dad.
I had 5 sisters that could do no wrong in the old mans eyes.
I one of my sister hit me over the head with a frying pan and I had swung back?
He would beat the living shit out me or one of my brothers for the same.
There was no being in the right, the only thing you could do was try like hell to not get into it with any of them..
I preach the same sermom to my 13 year old step son who likes to mix it up with his sister.
Don`t touch her, don`t argue with her, don`t even look at her, come to me or you`r mom if you have a problem.

I used to just threaten my sister with sticking her in a box without airholes and shipping her ass back to S.Korea. That usually shut her the hell up. (c'mon, I was like only 27 at the time) I kid I kid,..I was like 10, and she had my mom wound around her finger,..swallowed everything she said hook line and sinker. Hell I used to get grounded just by walking thru the door for lies my sis made up while I was playing outside,..far away. Untill I put the fear of UPS in her. bv764yu

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